Disdain Things You Cannot Have: Ignoring Them Is the Best Revenge (The 48 Laws of Power Broken Down – Laws 36-38)

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Attend the world’s best business coach workshop, led by america’s number one business coach for free by subscribing on itunes and leaving us an objective review. Claim your tickets by emailing his group that you didn’t and your contact information to cancel at drivetime show.Com all right right makes you welcome back to the best business coach conversation. It is the thrive time show on your radio into or break it down the 48 laws of power from robert greene’s international best-seller. This book is an absolute power house in this book breaks down over 500 pages of world history, and it shows you, the common denominators of the power moves that the ultra powerful have used to get to their positions of power. Now the problem that I had with the book when I first read the book of the problems I have with the book still is that when he teaches you the moves we live in a world of darkness were a lot of people. Don’t have a moral compass, you see, I run everything through the filter of. Does this align itself with the judeo-christian worldview, but a lot of people? Don’t they feel like the bible? Is just a old book with a bunch of random principles in it, and so we live in a world that where people don’t have religious moral compass anymore I mean have you noticed that the world doesn’t have the same moral compass? Did it once had when you were in school? At the very least, it’s more visible, the people that don’t make sense like if it’s not even more than you, can see all of the people on facebook everybody can get a hold of you now and show you how immoral they’re being so you you, don’t you don’t think the world is any more immoral now I mean it might be, I don’t know, i, don’t have any evidence, but it sure seems kind of crazy.

You feel, like you, don’t feel like the world is a glass of moral that used to be out what I want to put you down as I want to hear it. I don’t know, but it feels like there’s always been just bad people that doing bad things and, like we talked about in the previous podcast i, listen to a podcast of all the different torture methods. Throughout time and those are pretty pretty crazy people back then, but so let me let me walk you through my take on the way here. We are the world now where, if you are a best business coach or a president and you have an affair and right now, we have a busy of allegations everywhere right. But when you, when you now where the world, where, if you do the media, is going to talk about it right now, it’s going to happen right. So if you are having an affair they’re going to talk about the back of the day, you no one would ever talk about. No one would ever I mean you wouldn’t know if the king was having an affair, because a you weren’t allowed behind the castle walls be here a lot of affairs going on. In fact they were selling indulgences. There was other things going on. You can buy your way to heaven for so many scams prison that were happening at the time, but now it will world where you do know about it right, but I also think the world is now sad that pretty much anything is cool. I. Think it’s cool! I mean. That’s just who they going to culture now. That is a feel it it it. It’s a it’s a it’s! Whatever feels good time. There’s that there’s! Definitely you do you call to write like what are you guys?

Okay, you do you you do whatever you do. So let me read you lyrics from a song by halsey called bad at love., I’m super excited as the best business coach and it tastes like jack, when, I’m, kissing him, so I told him and I never really liked. His friends now he’s gone. He’s calling me up again, there’s a guy that lives in the garden state, and he told me that we that we make it till we graduate so I told him. The music would be worth the wait, but he wants me in the kitchen, with a dinner plate and inches I believe I believe I believe I believe that I’m that we weren’t meant to be first cut. It gets kind of trip because she says, got a girl with california eyes and I thought that she could really be the one this time, but I never got the chance to make her mind because she fell in love with that with those little white lines, the pizza, just in the first two verses of the song, the first verse. You said that she’s, you know dating a guy and this guy and her they drink a lot to petra and he calls her up, and so she lives with this guy and she decides to ultimately break up with him because he doesn’t support her music career explains that she is now dating a woman, so she switched teams she’s dating a woman, and she thinks that this woman could be the right one for her, but her friend is doing cocaine. True in that is in the first to look left on the pop radio right now. That is actually right. Now the number 27th top song right now. So then you listen to i, don’t know if you listen to what’s going on. What are we do? Post malone I mean rockstar. You know how to get rid of rockstar by post, malone, listen to the song, no i, don’t know who this is. Do you know who justin bieber concert and he have performed first there and his entourage actually came into the elephant in the room to get their haircut then so we got chance to meet the hell.

Are you talking about? My niece was showing me this guy i. Think post malone is that I’ve been poppin pillies man I just feel like a rockstar aaa. All my brothers got that gas and they always be smoking. Like a rasta with me, call up on an uzi and show up man, then the shottas, when my homies pull up on our block, they make the things go:pow pow, so he just advocated that he’s smoking a lot of pot. He carries an uzi all the time he pops pills and he has illicit sex with women who he refers to affectionately and respectfully as hoes. Now this song right now rockstar this song right now, rock star is in the top 10 right in the top 10. Now, drake, you know you’re depressing me.. Drink, though drink that what he does is he steps up the game little bit, he has a song called god’s plan. You would think a song called god’s plan would have you know better lyrics, god’s plan right, it’s called god’s best business coach plan, but this song basically talks about how he has a lot of people that don’t like him and he is going to prove him wrong and he talks about how he’s buying a lot of things for people as results to show them that he’s thankful that he’s part of god’s plan, although his achievement of god’s plan, in my mind, is so I would disagree with the morality of that song too, and we’re just really not through that the top 10. Yet there we’re just kind of pop it in the top 20 top 30 there of the top 40. So again he’s teaching you how to achieve power in the world size. So to me, I’ll tell you what that means in my eyes to me. Stop saying it that way! Next, to me being a dad that my kids can be proud of being a husband that my wife is proud of the leader and having the time freedom needed to do it, but that is it for me, so my laws of power would be make your f6 schedule every day, schedule time for your faith, your family, your finances, your fitness spray, your friendship and your fun and to simplify your life. So you can enjoy time freedom with the ones you love the next 37, so we’re going to do law, 36, 36, okay, i, see how things you cannot have ignoring them is the best revenge.

So he goes on to say by acknowledging a petty problem. You get it existence and credibility. The more attention you pay, an enemy of the stronger you make him and a small mistake is often made worse and more visible. When you try to fix it, it is sometimes best to leave things alone. If there is something you want but cannot have show contempt for it, the less interest you reveal the more superior you seem. This is absolutely a a problem. This is a huge problem in our society today. It’s we have people in our society today that just date did they pretend like they don’t value having a good marriage, because they don’t have one true:what you’re seeing perpetuated and pop music and so people who can’t stay off of drugs, try to glorify the use of drugs, which then makes young people think that that’s what success is. The song is rockstar and he’s talking about man if you’re a rockstar, if you’re doing great in life, if you’re, the man you’re me running around with an uzi shooting off guns while having a list of sex with women that you referred to as hose while doing pills daily pills, so I’m just telling you that this is a cultural observation that I’ve seen I’ve seen. Culture, try to play down the value of marriage, because most people don’t know how to have a good one anymore because they don’t follow the three best business coach laws in the system’s they’ve been proven to work in the bible I think you have a culture where people try to play, down the need for time freedom and they act as though being busy is awesome. I see a lot of people that try to play up. It’s almost like a cultural currency. You like the busier, you are the better. You are i, see that a lot a lot of people I would just say.

Beware of people who attack you because you are or you represent, what they choose not to be, and that’s so people will usually attack me a lot I see it all the time for being consistent. They hate that they hate to hate diligence. They hate people being focused that you did show up to make it I’m. Sorry they hate people that are direct with you can did they do their disciplined in our culture. We have more more people that are attacking the definition of what is beautiful and what is kind and you’re starting to see the culture more glorify violence and more glorify on power at all costs and relationships that are are broken and I would just tell you this, but that is not. If you go and live the life that I post malone advocates at being a rockstar, you will have a miserable existence, create compelling spectacles striking imagery and grand. Symbolic gesture is create the aura of power. Everyone responds to them stage spectacles for those around you, then full of arrest, visuals and radiant symbols that heighten your present dazzle by appearances. No one will notice what you were actually doing at those get rich, quick selling smoke and mirrors and grand symbolic best business coach gesture is create the aura of power music everywhere right. Everyone responds to the stage spectacles for those around. You, then full of arresting visuals and radiant symbols that heighten your present dazzle by appearances. No one will notice what you’re really doing perfect example.

Just took my daughter last weekend to the circus is circus and it’s a three ring circus. But the point is this:a three ring circus because they dazzle you on one ring turn the lights off on the other two, while they’re doing all of the stage grafton setting things up, so you don’t see what they’re doing then they kick the lights on and it’s like. Oh my gosh, it’s a whole nother thing going on so I made a list of some common examples of people trying to take advantage of you and so i. Just jugged out of these down for the listeners, I think it’s a powerful for somebody out there. Beware of people who will charge you a fee to have your photo taken with a celebrity at a business conference and who show up with a massive display of wealth while showing a lack of wisdom or prudence. It’s interesting. How there’s people out there that talk about all the well they’ve achieved, but yet they demonstrate a very massive lack of best business coach wisdom and you can’t achieve massive well, if you have lack of wisdom and if you do it’s going to quickly dissipate I mean is nba players to get huge contracts and it’s a shocker that the majority of them have bankruptcy face and then, when they retire, it’s because they weren’t prepared for the wealth of proverbs, 13:11 13 reeds. What their chop well from get wet. Get rich quick schemes quickly disappears well from hard work grows over time. It is well excerpt from the federal trade commission. It says:what’s the difference between a multi-level marketing program in a pyramid scheme, pyramid schemes are legal that if the money you earn is based on your sales to the public, the company, maybe alex, play legitimate multi-level marketing plant here are some signs of the company’s operating a pyramid scheme. Your income is based mainly on the number of people you recruit and the money those new recruits pay to join, not on the sales of the products to actual consumers. You required to buy lots of inventory, you’re forced to buy things. You don’t want or need just to stay in good standing with the company. The other main difference is you’re likely to lose money if you sign up for a pyramid scheme. So again, if you find yourself surrounded by charlatans, trying to deceive you, that is one of the moves that they use law 38.

We come back lot. 38 is powerful, I’m, not saying that I agree with it, but I am saying it is a law document in the laws of power attend the world’s best business workshop, led by america’s number one business coach for free by subscribing on itunes and leaving a review clean your tickets by emailing his group that you didn’t and your contact information to info at drivetime show.Com welcome back to the drive time to show on your radio. We are broadcasting for the ultra clean drive time, show studios and shut. Why is our facility so ultra-clean? We decided to work with the guys over at classic janitorial service and that’s until classic clean.Com, the classic clean.Com chances lot of coffee being drink. A lot of bathroom trips, and so we hire these guys to make sure everything is kind of squeaky-clean. If you listen to pass, shows cleaner, cleaner committing to eating off the floor here pretty soon cuz, it’s unbelievable to me how clean our facility has become right, since we decided to make the switch in use the gut the good guys at classic janitorial services. Are these best business coach guys? Are they really believe that you should kind of see what they do first hand and they want to get things started off with a good foot? How to do is if you called him today and schedule your first cleaning, their actual going to be doing a deep floor cleaning. What does that mean? It means by traffic areas of every business. Did it probably never really been deep clean? You know what I mean you maybe have never gotten down to clean. Maybe you’ve only been not clean, I need to know now, you’re, just kind of cleaning down to a level that are still a lot of grit and grime, and so much of a high traffic area in your business entryways lobby’s. That kind of thing they’re going to do a deep floor cleaning as a free additional value for anybody who reaches out to them for the first time. I will just tell you this people shouldn’t do it, but people do judge people based on their first impressions and if you’re out there working for a quick trip or working for a chick-fil-a or working for a starbucks, you probably feel pride. Will you open up that bathroom when you go up when you, when you open the door to your bathroom, you probably have a lot of pride, because you are excited for people to walk in there so proud about your bathroom facilities or your commonly that you’re most commonly trafficked areas of your building I would encourage you to give him a call, get a quote. What is there websites their website? Is the classic clean.Com v classic clean.Com, actually get a free quote and like play with saying your first service are going to do that deep floor clean for you can call them at 918-671-2046 again:918-671-2046 classic janitorial service number, one more Time:i’ll just try to memorize 671-2046 classic janitorial service, helping you to vaccinate yourself against the lights moved. These are laws. Are the world uses to gain power, but there’s a lot of these laws and principles that are documented in the 48 laws of power. That is ethically disagree with, but I want you to be aware of them. So you got me screwed over as a result of them salah 38.

What is what I’m excited to get your take on this one’s? A lot? 38 is stink as you like, but behave like others, and it goes on to say. If you make a show of going against the x flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon him. They will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch share, your originality only with the tolerant friends, though, so you are sure to appreciate your best business coach uniqueness okay. So why don’t we go line-by-line, because if you make a show of going against the times flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people think that you only want attention that you look down upon them. Okay, so let’s let’s try it here. Let’s see what happens. I think that public schools are categorically in systemically terrible, they’re terrible, and so we have teachers and our state right now. They’re thinking about going on a strike and I think they should I think they should go on strike and I’ve missed, never come back and I think that we should only have charter schools, where you can fire incompetent teachers, because I have volunteered massive amounts of time. Seven consecutive years working an entire day as a volunteer in the broken arrow high school system for mr. Farquhar and I can tell you what one out of three of the teachers that I met. During my time there gave a crap about the students and gallup gallup is a research poll. Gallup shows I want to put the show notes on there about the disengaged employees. 70% of employees are disengaged in any industry, not just teachers with any industry, but there’s actually alarming statistics shop about teachers. We can put on the show notes how teachers being disengage and here’s the deal. If you can’t fire somebody they’re going to be terrible at their job. This is how it works and check it out. If you don’t like the fact that they’re getting paid $31,000 a year, guess what they can do, jeff guess what they can do, guess what they can do to something else.

It could be a public speaker like i. Did you know that I used to get paid 7 to $10,000 per speaking event in, like five speaking events, I’m making more money than teachers make all year and I was teaching, so you could do that you could become a coder. You could go work at quiktrip, you can work at chick-fil-a. You can move across the board or chuck did you know people can move people couldn’t leave oklahoma move your body can say you know what if oklahoma has the lowest pay in the united states work me on this. If that is the argument, you know, the cost of living in oklahoma is also near the lowest. True, that’s why you can leave. We can see now that I just said an actual take chop. You see now that I didn’t take the middle of the road. You know what just happened. People are going to like we’re going to say here it is here it is it if you make a show of going against the time. You just question the almighty religion of public schools. Yes, I did flaunting your unconventional ideas. Let me keep going when I want to watch. The college is a complete waste of time unless you’re going there to get a specific, professional best business coach or technical skill. Yes, because when you went to college you did you or anything and I wish you how to know nothing. I can think of right now and up a cone college. All of them have told me directly and not, as result of me, probably make a man I’ve learned more working here, lower my entire time at college. I, don’t even know really know how to do anything when I got out of college. So college is a racket. Did you just question? Yes, it would happen immediately. Robert green is correct. He says if you make a show of going against the times, just wanting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people think that you want attention and that you look down upon them. So I’m not saying that I look down upon the, but now it says they will find a way to punish you for making them feel inferior. It is far safer to blend in and nurture the common touch share your originality only with tolerant friends and knows who you are sure to appreciate your uniqueness, which is why I don’t hang out with a lot of people. I only hang with people that share my values, I think it’s wrong to live with somebody before you’re married i, don’t believe in test-driving right i, don’t judge you i, don’t hate you! If you do but I’m just saying is you know you tend to get sexually transmitted diseases when you are hanging out with other people of the opposite sex and seeing if it works out, then moving on to the next one is sexually transmitting getting someone pregnant, because I’ve never moved in with someone before I’m married I want to wait till we come back home or loss of power after the break attend the world’s best business workshop led by america’s number one business coach for free by subscribing on itunes and leaving us an objective review. Claim your tickets by emailing his group that you didn’t and your contact information to camp point drive time show.Com to the drive time to show on your radio. Today we are breaking down the 48 laws of power robert greene. The international best-selling book and I continue to dwell on law 38, because I don’t think that I have adequately shared of the point that needs to be learned yet search up.

Please read the law 38 one more time, if you dare law, 38 think as you like, but behave like others. So please read the excerpt from the book one more time. If you make it show of going against the times, flaunting your unconventional ideas and unorthodox ways, people will think that you only want attention and that you look down upon them. I’m, just making sure you get this. This is this is where people are not used to truth. So when someone gives truth, it’s it’s going to freak somebody out so I’m just going to put these stats on the show notes. Okay, is the majority of people in our culture are not good people. This is my statement k according to the us chamber and cvs 75% of employees steal from the best business coach workplace. So now we move beyond my opinion. I pay the statement right and I just backed it by fax, correct, correct number to as I’m on a hot streak. Most people deserve to be poor. Proverbs 10:4 I want to put this on. The show notes it says it is:is the guinness is not my opinion. This is just proverbs proverbs 10:4 I mean this is this is tina from the bible and some of you. Most of our country as spouses or pretends to bullies believe in that religion. So, okay, proverbs 10 forces lazy hands make for poverty, but diligent hands bring well. So most people deserve to be poor because lazy, hands make for poverty, but diligent hands, bring wealth and people don’t have time to be successful because the average american the average american is watching how much tv either watching 5.2 hours of tv per day according to nielsen too much average american deserves to be poor. Why? Because they’re constantly watching tv and her being lazy see that’s the example. The average american deserves to be poor. Why? Because, according to ink magazine and every other study of ever had at least 8 out of 10, people lie on their resume check it out. The average american teacher is not good at their job. I’ll see now I have question the sacred cow that jumped. What is the sticky really statistic from gallipolis dss? Lack of teacher engagement is linked to 2.3 million, missed work days, so just check it out 5 days in a year. That’s a lot of days. Do you understand this will make sure we’re getting this thrive means I’m putting this on the show. So. You get this okay 30% of teachers that were surveyed said they’re engaged at their job, so quit just quit your freaking job. If you hate your job, quit don’t sit there and threaten my taxes, and you want to make more money. You get the lowest pay in oklahoma, because oklahoma is oklahoma, is the most affordable state in the union you get out at work since the lowest cost of living, so we should have the lowest teacher.

Pay in the thing is cute. I know my buddies right now. Joel david jewelry is hiring sharp people and if you are sharp teacher and you thought getting paid, what you’re worth to start a business quit go work at joel, david go work at chick-fil-a, go work somewhere else. These are thoughts with gallup shows that just 30% of teachers are engaged. So if you’re not engaged quit, if I wasn’t getting paid enough as a disc jockey, I could do what quit and I was getting paid enough of waiting tables at applebee’s. I can do what quit target. If I wasn’t making enough I can do what I could quit teachers out there I’m giving you some tips here. Here are some tips. If you’re not happy with your pay, you could go work on a boat in alaska. They pay really well up there. A friend of mine has done this i. Don’t like that job. You can go work, construction, I’ve done it! You can make good money. I don’t want to do that. You could go work for joel, david who’s, hiring i! Don’t want to do that. You can become a search engine. Optimizer! Don’t do that! You can go back to school and find a vocation that actually pay what you feel like you’re worth just because you feel like you’re worth it doesn’t mean I’m going to pay you that right, so you to become a coder. If you have a sound mind, if you’re smart enough to become a teacher, nothing stopping you from going back to school to become a coder and we need coders america needs coders, you can become a nurse to america, has a nursing crisis right, now., nurses and doctors. You know you can become a best business coach coder. You can go work on a rig in the ocean where we’re struggling to find people to work on the oil rigs you, my friend, could do anything you want, but you know you couldn’t:do you can’t be disengaged at your job and just mail it in and go on strike and all the sudden get a massive pay increase is not going to happen. You might get a subtle pay increase. You know how you want to win an election. If you want to hear there’s a key, if you want to win an election which I don’t want to do it if I did want to win the election, this is how I would win, because this is the law against the law. Please law, 38 law, 38. Think as you like, but behave like others to win. The election is so I would say:i want people of america I want you to know. I feel like our teachers are underpaid and i. Tell you. What is the new president of this great country I’m, going to make sure we raise teachers pay I feel, like you guys, are being overtaxed.

You guys are being over tax and I’mma. Tell you what I believe and small businesses in low taxation back to the teachers event. Two separate events, guys I’m going to take some of the best teachers in the world here and you guys are being underpaid and we have to pay you more, but the only way to pay you more is to raise taxes I’m just going to keep me in santa claus, both parties, and that is how we have a major national deficit. So I’m going to make sure you give you get this idea. The only sure we’re getting this idea. Okay! This is this is the idea right now. If you look up the u.S. Debt calculator, it’s called u.S. Debt clock. Org, please u.S. Debt, clock. Org, please! If you go to that website, I want to go there. Real quick I want every single best business coach person to go there right now, just go there, and do you understand that the national debt stands at 21 trillion dollars and every second that were on this show it’s going up up up up up. Why it’s because politicians are telling you I’m in favor, of raising your raising your pay. Mr. Teacher I’m in favour going to get paid more mr. Teacher, mrs. Teacher mrs. Teach because I need to get paid more and then we’re going to small business owners were saying you guys are being taxed too much and if you lower the taxes, but your raise the hand out. If you raise the government spending while decreasing what it brings in you know, or national debt, because I’m, a genius who is great at math, i, guess Right:i’m able to figure out if you spend more than you bring in you perpetuate the dead. But if you want to fit in in our culture, never speak the truth, because we speak the truth. You know like jesus, christ or martin luther, king jr. Or you know anybody who’s ever spoken, the truth. They typically get killed and then we have to wipe your hands clean from those situations, because you know pontius pilate didn’t want to be guilt that you just do what the people want it be guilty of. Killing jesus christ, it’s not his deal. He wiped his hands clean of it. So get. If you want to be hated, be honest. If you want to be loved, don’t ever said the truth. Remember this false kindness is yet another form of line. Falls kindness is fly